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About Shawn1978

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  • Birthday 12/03/1978

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    Hermitage, PA
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    real profile.
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  • What are your interests?
    I like to hang out with friends, play video games, occasionally.
  • What are your stats?
    39 years old, 6'1 193lbs, 32 waist, naturally thin build, black hair, brown eyes, with a mustache and goatee.
  • What are you seeking?
    friends ages 18 and over, who are into muscles and muscle worship, and/or who share the same love of muscle in common. I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, nor sex of any kind, except maybe things that be can played safe. I don't mind foreplay and kissing here and there, especially during muscle worship. that's always fun and satisfying. In my opinion, muscle worship can be more satisfying than any sex you could ever have. Think about it. With muscle worship, both parties leave the session, satisfying and feeling appreciated and sometimes, that's better than sex, because the sex could be not so memorable and that's not exactly an ending impression you want left by someone you are really into.
  • What are your dream stats?
    Not sure yet, as far as stats, but I would like to maintain my thin look and bulk up a little bit more so my muscles look better. I want more the fitness model look than anything. I don't have the patience or desire to become a big huge bodybuilder. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just not what I desire for myself. I, myself, love all types of muscle from the young starting out thin to physique fitness types, up to the big freaky bodybuilders. I love it all. Nothing is too extreme for me, unless you look like Greg Valentino did when he took it too far.
  • Favorite Stories
    muscle worship related true stories, as well as stories of muscle guys and bodybuilders acheiving their dreams in the competitive sport of bodybuilding.
  • Favorite Bodybuilders
    Jay Cuter, Ronnie Coleman, Kai Greene, Joey Sullivan ("Daniel Carter and "Steel' on other sites) Tyler Hanson (Jake Daniel on most sites) Ben Kieron, and many, many more!
  • Got Any Fetishes?
    muscle worship, bodybuilders in jeans, big quads. I love to fuck a man's quads, with my dick stuck between hi legs, just below his balls and fuck until I cum, while feeling his flexed outer quads with my legs. That is mostly fantasy since I've never done this, but would love to try with a big muscle guy. A doctor friend of mine who had muscles is who turned me on to legs when he let me fuck his one time.

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  1. Exactly, Steel. I am gay, but I feel the same way you do when it comes to feeling anyone's muscles. I feel it's the respectful thing to do always to ask first. I don't like being groped without permission either. I had one guy ask me to come over to him and when I walked over, he squeezed my crotch, shocking me. Although I didn't freak out on him, I still didn't appreciate being groped without asking. I have respect for everyone's personal space, so usually I compliment first on their physique and hard work to get a sense of who they are and how they react before I ask if I can feel their muscles. Thanks for sharing your personal view and opinion on this subject. It's good to hear someone else's point of view. It gives a greater understanding of straight men and their muscles.
  2. Shawn1978

    Frank DeFeo, you forever rest in our memories.

    I believe he's 6'0 tall. You can check out his Instagram. He had it before he died, and it's still up. www.instagram.com/frankdefeo there are some other people who are saying he died of a stroke, but since he knew StoneHenge, personally and the two of them were friends, I trust his news, the most. but of course, coming from the family, we'd get the real cause. Also, his most recent photo at the top page of him flexing his biceps, looks like it may have been his last one. He look around 300 lbs there. you can tell from how much bigger his arms and shoulders and traps are. EDIT: there are indeed pictures of him on his Instagram. in one he's wearing a white hoodie and looks massive in it! He commmented he was at 306 lbs at that time.
  3. Yes, Dentistclark, I've felt plenty of muscles from gay and straight guys (more of them straight, I think) alike. I always compliment them first on their physique and how good it looks before I ask to feel their bicep, out of respect for them. I usually get a yes or no, answer. I"ve probably had more positive responses than negative ones. If there's a "no' answer, I just leave it at that, tell them to keep up the great work and then excuse myself. Most straight men love the attention and usually don't mind flexing, even for another guy, but if they think you want something more than that, then I can see them getting uncomfortable. I think why some guys don't mind flexing for other women and men who notice their physiques is usually because sometimes their husband or wife doesn't appreciate that about them, at home, so they'll usually flex or take compliments from even gay guys, because it makes them feel good and feel like at least "someone" appreciates their work. I could be wrong, but I think hearing a straight guy's point of view, who doesn't mind flexing for another guy, gay or straight, who happens to love muscle, thinks about a situation like this. I, for one, think it's pretty cool when straight guys can flex for another man or anyone else, without feeling uncomfortable or threatened in any way.
  4. Shawn1978

    Frank DeFeo, you forever rest in our memories.

    https://www.gotporn.com//gay/stone-henge-xxl-and-tank/video-1974957 Frank DeFeo and StoneHengeXXL Frank's death is indeed tragic and we've lost out on another bodybuiding great, possibly even a legend in his own right! I emailed StoneHengeXXL about Frank's death and asked him if he knew anything about it and here's what he told me. "Frank DeFeo was my friend in New York. I talked to him the day he went to the hospital. He didn't feel well and he had a heart attack, in the hospital, the next day. I did talk to him, this past winter, about doing a video again, this summer. He was 34 years old. He was taking alot of steroids at the time, and he weight was the highest it had ever been: 310 pounds." So apparently Frank had a heart attack, which ultimately led to his death. Frank will be missed alot. I thought he was one of the hottest italian men and bodybuilder, on this planet! And it is a shame that they didn't get to do another video together. Given where his weight was, at the time of his death, the new video would have been a great tribute to him at his biggest ever.
  5. Shawn1978

    Finding someone to worship

    Rent.men is one of the sites where you can find muscle guys who are available for muscle worship, among other things. You can search by city and state, so you should be able to find someone in your area quite easily. Many of the guys on that site used to be on Men4rentnow.com, so if you had any favorites on that site before it got shut down, right after Craigslist personals, thanks to Congress's new bill fighting sex trafficking, then you should be able to find them there, no problem. Most of them on Rent Men let you know what they're into and what they're not, and if you're not sure, then just ask.
  6. Shawn1978

    Muscle girls worship on Instagram

    Thanks CentralNJMuscle and DJStoner for the info! I'll looking into it. As for a male bodybuilder to muscle worship, the next one I'm hoping to meet is StoneHengeXXL. He's pretty famous in the online videos and you may have seen him I .Muscle worship videos with the late Frank 'The Tank' Defeo. I'm still reeling over that loss. Frank was only 34 years old. Way too young to die.
  7. Shawn1978

    Muscle Fetish Con/Convention?

    Do you think A muscle worship convention would be welcome at a Gay Pride event? The only other way would be to maybe rent a vacation house or something and advertise a muscle party. Call it "The House of Muscle" in which you could invite muscle guys and bodybuilders to the event. An affordable admissions fee could be established to get into the house along with checking ID for ages 18 and up. The price of admission could go towards paying for food to be prepared or cooked at the event by volunteers or anyone who doesn't mind helping out with cooking. But for a party like this or any other type of adult party, I'm sure alot more goes into planning something like this. For any adult party with alot of people, you have to take into consideration of things like hiring caterers, security guards for protection, whether or not to permit the selling of alcohol or not, arrangements to pay the muscle men and any of the participants who come to the party who want to be paid for their time. Although they would get paid one on one by their muscle worshippers, what about any professional bodybuilders like say Jay Cutler for example who would want paid for their service to the party? I was using Jay as an example since he's a professional. Alot of planning goes into parties like this and it takes careful planning and budgeting. You want to make sure you can afford this kind of event, as well as spread the word about it so that people hear about it and want to come to it, otherwise that money put into having the event will be wasted if nobody comes. I'm certainly no party planner, but I know a little bit of what is to be taken into consideration when throwing one. EDIT: Also, do some reseach on Google. Google "NYC Fetish Parties" and see what you can find out. The best way to doing an event like this is to see how other kinds of "Fetish" parties are planned, how it done, where it's done, and what it can cost. The best way to find that out is to ask other places that have done these kinds of parties about the best places to have it and their opinions on how the public percieves it. I have to get to bed for work in the morning, otherwise, I'd research this further to find out more. If any of you want to research this more, do it and let us know what you find out. Good Luck! Maybe planning an event like this can be possible after all.
  8. Shawn1978

    Frank DeFeo, you forever rest in our memories.

    What??!!! Are you serious?! Man, what a tragic loss of an awesome muscle man, indeed! I can't believe I"m hearing about this now? I remember live chatting with him on Flirt4free a long while ago. He was a great guy and very open and attentive to his muscle worshippers.
  9. Shawn1978

    Muscle Fetish Con/Convention?

    Muscledrain, although, that's a good idea, I don't think it would be very successful, because many of these guys who offer muscle worship or any kind of fetishes may not be comfortable advertising stuff like that to a public audience. The muscle worship thing is still very frowned upon by people and could be looked at as legalized prostitution, which we all know it's not. There are straight men that do this kind of thing for muscle worship admirers like me and others, for their financial gain in bodybuilding, or other reasons, and their significant others (girlfriends, boyfriends, etc) may not know about it. The only thing something like this would be considered is if it was done privately and discreetly in a place where it's only the muscle men and the muscle worshippers met up. Something like this might be more welcome in a gay friendly place. Either way, I don't think something like this would work. It will depend heavily on the circumstances and accomodations leading up to the convention.
  10. Just out of curiosity, I checked out some muscled girls on Instagram when I searched under muscle worship. Some of those muscle girls look pretty and have nice muscles. I've never muscle worshipped a muscled girl before so I'm now wondering what it would be like. I've never even touched a woman before, not even in a sexual way. This would be an interesting way to find out if a woman would make me hard and if I'd get any sexual arousal out of it. Even if I don't have sex, I'd like to at least do some touching of the muscles without any sexual lines being crossed. I started this thread mainly for any straight men or anyone else who might find female muscle attractive. Many of the woman don't look bodybuilder extreme, but some are very pretty, as well as muscled. Search muscle_girl_worship on Instagram and check out the pictures.
  11. I"ve always been a huge fan of Jean-Claude Van Damme and his impressive physique. But the one thing about Van Damme is that he didn't get his physique from lifting weights in a gym. He did it all with body weight exercises. He's always looked great in all of his films, but I think when he starred as Colonel Guile in the Street Fighter movie, he was in the best shape of his life. I loved his muscles in that film. And he still looks pretty damn good even now. still very muscular and toned nicely. He's aged, but very well.
  12. UPDATE: By the way, remember the guy I told you I felt his bicep yesterday night at the gas station? well you can have a look at him on Instagram. I was shocked that this young guy is only 20 years old but he's already becoming a beast. https://www.instagram.com/thebeastbryce/
  13. I saw a very attractive light skinned African American guy at my local Speedway about a half hour ago when I was getting gasoline and buying some soda and pizza. When I went to get the pop, I saw him over by the window. I stopped over and talked to him. I was so nervous and was shaking with excitement that I think he noticed it. I complimented him on his physique and asked him if he competed in bodybuilding. He said No he doesn't, but that it's a dream of his. I was telling him about the goals I want to accomplish for myself with my own physique and we got to talking a little bit about fitness and nutrition a bit. I did ask him if I could feel his bicep. He looked surprised. He was like "You wanna feel my bicep?" I said. "Is that alright with you?" Before I finished saying that, He was already flexing it. I put my hand to it and felt it. It was sort of between soft and rock hard, but it still felt amazing. I'd say his biceps are around 17 maybe 18 inches at least. And he had a really nice chest too. I wanted to feel that too, but I didn't since that would have been pushed it a bit too far. We talked a bit and my nerves calmed down a bit. He said he used to be fat and I once again congratulated him on his progress he's made and said that I found his story to be very inspiring. He did give me his instagram and I know what gym he works out at, so we'll see what happens. I might try Planet Fitness out first. He seems like a nice guy, but I don't think he's gay. I didn't really get that vibe from him. Even if I was wrong, I didn't want to do or say anything to make him uncomfortable. But still, feeling his bicep was a thrill. I think I've gotten more bicep feels than turn downs in all the time I've been asking guys if I could feel their biceps. I could tell he was appreciative of my comments at least, but I don't want to read more into it than what it actually may have been.
  14. Shawn1978

    Am I too sexually addicted to muscle?

    This has been a very interesting read, from many points of views, straight, gay, bisexual, etc. It's great to see everyone's opinions on the love and fascination of muscle. I started liking muscles ever since I was about 10 years old when bodybuilding on TV was in it's prime and very widely televised. I think my fascination with men and muscles started long before I even knew I was gay. Back then, I loved their muscles but didn't know what being gay meant, and I had not ever thought of men in a sexual way, yet. That didn't come until later. Anyway, sometimes I wondered if I was only attracted to guys with muscles and maybe I wasn't really gay, but just attracted to guys with that body type. I found out later on that it wasn't true, since I had my first attempt at a long distance relationship with a guy who wasn't muscular at all, except he had some nice legs. Back then, I liked him for who he was, not what he looked like, which is one of the most important things to remember when finding a partner. the muscles are nice, but it's more about what is on the inside that counts, as I've found out the hard way, at different times in my life. now as far as the Female physique goes, I don't really find the bodybuilder style women's physique beautiful because women lose alot of their beauty and start looking like guys with all the testeserone that they have to take. There are women out there that have a beautiful looking swimsuit style model type physique with muscle on them to look attractive without overdoing it. I've never been with a woman sexually, so I don't know if I would get hard around a women, feeling her muscles or not. Even I know a gorgeous woman when I see one. But just from looking a pretty woman, I don't get aroused. But I can see a very attractive guy with or without muscles and get aroused, instantly. I would have to do some foreplay or something with a woman to determine if I would get hard or turned on by it. if I did, then I can say I'm bisexual. I've done foreplay and lots of kissing and such with guys, so I know I'm attracted to men, sexually too, not just the muscular fetish. Also, I will be 40 years old in December of this year, and I have still not lost my virginity yet. In my 20s, I always had this fantasy of losing my virginity to a big strong muscle stud, who is just as nice of a person as his body is beautiful. But unfortunately, fantasies like that don't become a reality, especially since, what a muscular doctor friend of mine once told me, that if you want a muscle guy, you have to get muscles of your own. Muscle attracts Muscle. But sometimes that's not always true. There are muscle guys who like thinner guys, since the thinner guys sometimes appreciate muscle more. I can't speak for those big muscle types who appreciate muscle, just as much as thinner guys, but this is just from my point of view and how I feel. Muscle worship can be sexual or non-sexual. In my opinion, I feel muscle worship can be the most rewarding experience for both involved, no matter what your sexual orientation is, and it can be better than any sex, sometimes. Because both parties leave satisfied. the bodybuilder leaves feeling loved and appreciated for his hard work building up his physique, and the muscle worshipper is left with the memories of an experience that is wonderful beyond words. Any of you remember the last time you were left speechless and overwhelmed with emotion after making love with the person you loved the most for the first time. Although you could have had sex many times with many people, when you find someone you love, it doesn't become about having sex anymore. Making love is so much different than having sex. When you make love to someone, you worship them, mind, body, and soul. Sometimes I feel muscle worship can be like this as well. I define muscle worship as making love to the muscular individual with my hands and kissing over the body with my lips. At least to those who don't mind having their muscles kissed. I know some straight guys who don't mind it, as long as it's muscle worship related. And I think, through muscle worship, you can make love to a straight man too, without crossing any sexual boundaries. Because you are loving and appreciating him for what his has accomplished through hard work in the gym, for the person that he is, and for giving you the opportunity to experience his hard work through the art of his physique. Plus, you can make love to someone, without actually being in love with them as well. I think if more straight men saw it this way, they wouldn't be so creeped out when it comes to muscle worship. I personally don't feel there's anything wrong with admiring a straight man's physique or wanting to feel his muscles, as long as you keep in your mind that nothing sexual will happen and that you respect that he is straight. I think once most straight men understand this and aren't so weirded out by it, then they can actually relax and enjoy the attention as well, without being judged by others for it. Because most times, straight men are worried that people will question their sexuality if they're associated with anyone whose gay or anything that is seen as gay. If you know the truth about yourself, that's all that really matters. What people think or say about you shouldn't matter. Feel free to share your opinions about my post. Sometimes I can get my point across well and other times, I can't, so If anything said here is offensive to any of you, who are straight, I sincerely apologize, and you can probably put you own point of view on it, in a way that I can understand it better, from a heterosexual point of view. In this world, there should be something for everyone to enjoy without be judged or criticized. Those of you who said the love and fascination of muscle is definitely a very complicated thing, was definitely right. There's no real easy way to explain it. You just know that you love it, you love the people who have it who have worked their asses off to get it, and you want to share the experience with them, in a way that is still very much frowned upon by many. We all love the attention our muscles get us when they look good and we are proud of our accomplishments. I don't think there should be anything wrong with that. We are after all, only human.
  15. Hey guys! Check out this YouTube channel of these two guys, one Brazilian (Bernardo) and other (Adam) American. Both are very muscular fit guys and they both are gorgesous. I just came across their channel last week and I swear these two are adorable together! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIb7s0ej1pWP9iuvm4-IbMw/playlists It's great to see relationships like theirs and I think they are a good role model for gay and bisexual men looking for the same kind of relationship that they have. Plus, I think they also inspire us to get into amazing shape as well. I have not watched enough videos to know if there's any flexing in them, yet, but still watching them interact together just puts a smile on my face, whenever I watch them. I hope that Bernardo can successfully relocate here to the USA to be with Adam, permanently. These two have got it, together!